Some of my clients are caught between a rock and an abandoning place. Because they long for someone those feelings build up an imaginary relationship. Longing reinforces longing. It does not change the reality of a one-sided relationship. Be kind to yourself and feel good that you […]
Read more →Respect is a word that couples often do not understand. I hear it frequently, “Of course, I respect my spouse.” But name-calling, rolling your eyes, contempt, ridicule, and intentionally embarrassing your partner is mean-spirited. Telling your partner his or her motives is arrogant. Another person can’t know […]
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